Cherishing what is given to me

I have been with this man for over a quarter of a century. He had healed much of the confusion I had in my life prior to the day we met. The confusion sometimes pops up his ugly head but it occurred to me this morning that I have been terribly unfair to him. He was just trying to express his uneasiness about some of the choices his children have made, something I am always telling him to do. It suddenly became about my own fears about my children and I commented back with disregard to him. I could of easily embraced his own fears with understanding and shared love of our children. I think I still have a lot to learn but God help me, I am going to love this incredible man in the way that he deserves and stop being so self absorbed.

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